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Sunday, October 31, 2010

Every relationship has a cycle.

In the begining; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural an spontaneous experience. You didn't have to do anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there, doing nothing, and then something happened to you. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of every relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your Partner might start asking, "am I with the right person?" and as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationship breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relatinship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does not lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could, and temporarily you would feel better. But you will be in the same situation years later. Because (read this very carefully): the key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person, it's learning to love the person you have found.

Sustaining love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands wisdom. You have to know what to do to make it work. Make no mistakes about it. Love is not a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws if the universe ( such as gravity), there are also laws for relationship. If you know and aply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!!

But then sometimes, you see people with perfect love stories and you think why you can't have it all. You know why? Cus god decided that you don't deserve it. So, there you go. What ever happen to true love and forever and ever.

da-daah.

feel the beat.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Sick of crying, tired of trying, yeah i'm smiling, but inside i'm dying

We are happy together. We look like we're made for each other. Well, I think we're good actors. Cus we got the world deceived.

I rather sleep forever and ever, cause in my dream we looked so much happy than in reality.

Sleepless nights, and stormy days, I've got proof that people change.

But then there's that one person. You let them in & you trust them & you think maybe, just maybe, everything you've ever gone through is worth it because you think you found someone on this messed up planet who knows you. Well, all you can do now is to hope that you were right.

She said, " I'm so afraid." And i said, "why?", and she said, "because I'm so profoundly happy, Dr. Rasul. Happiness like this is frightening. They only let you be this happy if they're preparing to take something from you."

Too bad that people can’t switch problems. Because nobody knows how to solve their own problems, but they always know how to solve another’s.

"I hate when people say I look miserable when I’m just sitting there. Do I need to paint a smile on all the time?"

Okay, i think that's about enough for the day. I'm not in the mood to talk things out. So, just enjoy the quotes. Beautiful, ain't they?

XOXO.

feel the beat.

Tuesday, October 05, 2010

It's OCT, wait for it. OCTOBER! (haha, okay lame.)

Anyway, Ryzzal's POP was nice. Finally met the bf after 3 weeks. Dinner at arab street with clique was awesome as always. And it ended on a good note. Tmr, half day. Thursday meeting Nathan for dinner. Fri, orientation. Today meeting Rekha for dinner at hougang mall. Pretty mundane and boring. Nothing interesting about it.

XOXO,

Kids argued, “I hate you! I won’t play with you again.” So they play apart. Later, they play together and share toys. Why? For kids, happiness is more important than pride. Too bad, we’re all grown up now.

I`m not perfect. I’ll annoy you, I’ll piss you off, say stupid things then take them back. But put all that aside, and realize that you’ll never find a girl who cares about you more than me.

Dear tummy, sorry about the butterflies. It’s not my fault. I swear. It’s his.

So there’s this boy, we argue a lot.
He makes fun of me because i can only
stay on a subject for like 5 seconds, & then
i`m on to the next one. He listens to me when i`m
sad & handles me when i`m mad. I tell him i hate him
and he responds with, “No you don’t .” Yeah, he’s not
prince charming, but to me, he couldn’t be more perfect.

Girl: Tell me how much you love me.
Boy: Look up at the sky.
Girl: Stop changing the subject!
Boy: Just look.
(Girl looks up to the sky)
Girl: What am I doing?
Boy: Tell me how many stars are in the sky.
Girl: That's impossible.
Boy: So is explaining my love for you.
Did you know that I don’t care if you call me & wake me up in the middle of the night, or early in the morning. I hate arguing but you know I`m good at it. I`m terrified of the dark & get even more terrified when something happens that even makes the slightest possibility that I`m gonna lose you. Everytime I sees you I can’t help but smile. I can’t wait to just run up too you & give you a hug because to me, that’s the best feeling in the world. Yeah i guess you could just say that I`m crazy for you.

Boy: Are you mad at me?
Girl: No, why would you think that?
Boy: You didn`t talk to me this morning.
Girl: We never talk in the morning.
Boy: Yeah, we do. You tap my shoulder, & i go what. Then you ask me if i`m tired & I say yes. We do that everyday
Girl: Really?
Boy: Yeah, thats our daily routine
Girl: I didn`t know it meant that much to you
Boy: Well, it does..every moment with you does
I`m gonna smile when i wanna cry,
act happy when i wanna die, laugh
out loud when i`m feeling blue, and i
won’t let it bother me when i see her
with you.

Boys will break your heart, friends will betray you, parents will seem too strict, and life might annoy you, but you should always remember that there’s a purpose for these things to happen to us.. so keep your head up and your spirits high.. because if you don’t.. life will just p a s s you by..
&& Lastly,
Do you know what girls really want?
They want real conversations & real love.
We want cute dates, nothing expensive.
Truth is, we just wanna be with you,
to be able to say something ~~stupid~~ & not worry
Really we just want a guy to love us for
nothing but being us. Plain & simple.

feel the beat.

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